May Chang and Xiao-Mei, it is a pleasure to meet you both. You are perfectly welcome to bounce jokes off of me, as I am quite the expert. You're also welcome to use any of my jokes if you can give me a heads up. I wouldn't want to tell him the same joke and just sound lame, or worse, reveal that I'm the one giving you joke ideas. Yohohoho! But as they say, love is patient, and patience is a virtue. All things take time, so don't worry too badly if it's not immediate. He's likely to come around one way or another. Yohohoho!